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Marlo was willing. I cautioned her that Jack and her children might be upset with her for awhile, because they were used to her being a caretaker, but that if they really loved her and wanted her to be happy, they would end up supporting her in loving herself.

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�Marlo,� I said to her, �there is a good possibility that the way Jack treats you is a mirror of how you treat yourself. How often do you think about what you want or feel?�

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�Imagine that your feelings and needs are a small child that you�ve just adopted. What would you do to help her begin to feel loved?�

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�Not very often. I usually think more about Jack and my kids than I do about myself. I think it�s selfish to think about myself. I want to be loving, not selfish.�

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Marlo and Jack have been married for twelve years and have two young children. Marlo and Jack each state that they love each other, yet Marlo does not feel loved by Jack, while Jack states that he is content with the relationship.

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�Well, then you can decide what is in your highest good. But until you are loving to yourself, you will not know the truth about Jack. Most of the people I�ve worked with have found that when they are loving to themselves long enough, their whole relationship improves. I can�t guarantee it, but isn�t it worth a try, rather than just giving up?�

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Marlo was confused between selfishness and self-responsibility. Actually, in their relationship, Jack was the selfish one in expecting Marlo to give herself up to take responsibility for his feelings and needs. By not caring about her own feelings and needs, Marlo was training her children to be selfish as well. They were already learning to blame her for their feelings and expect her to give herself up for them. As soon as Jack or the children would get angry or withdraw, Marlo would feel guilty and responsible and give herself up to do what they wanted.

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�Marlo,� I said to her, �there is a good possibility that the way Jack treats you is a mirror of how you treat yourself. How often do you think about what you want or feel?�

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In their relationship system, Marlo tends to be the caretaker, while Jack is the taker. Marlo often thinks about what would please Jack, while Jack rarely thinks about what Marlo wants or feels.

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�Yes, I don�t really want to leave Jack. I�m excited about this. I finally have some hope for our relationship!�

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�Imagine that your feelings and needs are a small child that you�ve just adopted. What would you do to help her begin to feel loved?�

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�Good,� I said. �Now you need to start asking Jesus for information regarding the loving action toward yourself. You do this by asking a question, such as, �Jesus, what would the loving action be toward myself when Jack is angry with me?� or �What is in my highest good when my children are being demanding or disrespectful toward me?� Then imagine what Jesus might say to you. You might have to make it up for awhile, but after awhile you will begin to experience that Jesus is actually answering you. You will begin to experience two-way communication between you and Jesus. Are you willing to try this?�

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�But what if Jack just stays mad?� she asked.

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What should Marlo do? Should she leave Jack, even though she loves him? Should she continue to try to get him to care about her, which has never worked? These are the questions Marlo had for me when she had a counseling session with me on the phone.

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�Imagine that your feelings and needs are a small child that you�ve just adopted. What would you do to help her begin to feel loved?�

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�Not very often. I usually think more about Jack and my kids than I do about myself. I think it�s selfish to think about myself. I want to be loving, not selfish.�

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�Yes,� she replied. �I�m a Christian and I turn to Jesus.�

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�But what if Jack just stays mad?� she asked.

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�Well, I would spend time with her, and listen to her, and hold her. I would let her know that I�m here and not going away. I would do lots of things to help her feel safe and loved.�

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�Yes,� she replied. �I�m a Christian and I turn to Jesus.�

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�Well, I would spend time with her, and listen to her, and hold her. I would let her know that I�m here and not going away. I would do lots of things to help her feel safe and loved.�

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�Imagine that your feelings and needs are a small child that you�ve just adopted. What would you do to help her begin to feel loved?�

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�Not very often. I usually think more about Jack and my kids than I do about myself. I think it�s selfish to think about myself. I want to be loving, not selfish.�

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�Well, I would spend time with her, and listen to her, and hold her. I would let her know that I�m here and not going away. I would do lots of things to help her feel safe and loved.�

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�Imagine that your feelings and needs are a small child that you�ve just adopted. What would you do to help her begin to feel loved?�

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�So what do I do?� asked Marlo. �I�m so used to taking care of everyone else. I have no idea how to take care of myself.�

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Marlo would not know whether or not Jack really loved her until she started to love herself. What if she left him and met another man? I assured her that the same thing would eventually happen if she remained a caretaker, because people usually end up treating us the way we treat ourselves.

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�Not very often. I usually think more about Jack and my kids than I do about myself. I think it�s selfish to think about myself. I want to be loving, not selfish.�

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�Marlo,� I said to her, �there is a good possibility that the way Jack treats you is a mirror of how you treat yourself. How often do you think about what you want or feel?�

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�But what if Jack just stays mad?� she asked.

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Then we moved on to another subject. �Marlo, do you have a source of spiritual guidance you turn to?�

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�Well, I would spend time with her, and listen to her, and hold her. I would let her know that I�m here and not going away. I would do lots of things to help her feel safe and loved.�

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�Not very often. I usually think more about Jack and my kids than I do about myself. I think it�s selfish to think about myself. I want to be loving, not selfish.�

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�But what if Jack just stays mad?� she asked.

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�Not very often. I usually think more about Jack and my kids than I do about myself. I think it�s selfish to think about myself. I want to be loving, not selfish.�

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�So what do I do?� asked Marlo. �I�m so used to taking care of everyone else. I have no idea how to take care of myself.�

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�Yes, I don�t really want to leave Jack. I�m excited about this. I finally have some hope for our relationship!�

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�So what do I do?� asked Marlo. �I�m so used to taking care of everyone else. I have no idea how to take care of myself.�

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�Not very often. I usually think more about Jack and my kids than I do about myself. I think it�s selfish to think about myself. I want to be loving, not selfish.�

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�Marlo,� I said to her, �there is a good possibility that the way Jack treats you is a mirror of how you treat yourself. How often do you think about what you want or feel?�

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Marlo was quite surprised when I told her that neither action was warranted at this time.

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In their relationship system, Marlo tends to be the caretaker, while Jack is the taker. Marlo often thinks about what would please Jack, while Jack rarely thinks about what Marlo wants or feels.

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�Yes, I don�t really want to leave Jack. I�m excited about this. I finally have some hope for our relationship!�

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Then we moved on to another subject. �Marlo, do you have a source of spiritual guidance you turn to?�

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�Well, I would spend time with her, and listen to her, and hold her. I would let her know that I�m here and not going away. I would do lots of things to help her feel safe and loved.�

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�Imagine that your feelings and needs are a small child that you�ve just adopted. What would you do to help her begin to feel loved?�

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�Not very often. I usually think more about Jack and my kids than I do about myself. I think it�s selfish to think about myself. I want to be loving, not selfish.�

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Marlo was quite surprised when I told her that neither action was warranted at this time.

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�Yes, I don�t really want to leave Jack. I�m excited about this. I finally have some hope for our relationship!�

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�But what if Jack just stays mad?� she asked.

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�Yes,� she replied. �I�m a Christian and I turn to Jesus.�

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Then we moved on to another subject. �Marlo, do you have a source of spiritual guidance you turn to?�

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�Exactly!� I stated. �This is what you need to start to do for yourself. Keep imagining that your own feelings are a small child and you are the parent of this child. You really do know how to be loving � it�s just that you�ve never thought about being loving to yourself. Take all that you�ve learned about giving to others and now give some of it to yourself.�

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